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Welcome to Shame to Shine! 

Stories of brave women facing the parts of themselves we were taught to hide

What is this about? 

  • This series includes personal accounts of women who have walked through the isolating valleys of shame - which has looked like:

    • Loss of self, burnout, heartbreak, perfectionism

    • Job loss, exclusion, not enoughness, abuse

    • Heartbreak, infertility, sexual trauma, religious deconstruction, divorce 

We want to share these stories to inspire you, see you, and remind you that you can keep going.

Hear their Stories

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Picture Perfect No More: Reclaiming Identity and Enoughness

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Samantha Santiago,
PhD, MBA

Relationship Coach-Consultant, Founder of CONFIDENCE + FAITH™

Losing Your Identity + Growing In Life

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Alli Cost

Pediatric Occupational Therapist

A Non-Traditional Life

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Markeea Hart

Owner / Founder of 
Girls Running Sh**

From Burnout to Balance: A Black Woman’s Journey to Thriving Through Wellness

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Cat Bruno

Babesburgh Founder

Learning to Shine on Your Own

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Briana Bowley

Nervous System Regulation Coach and International Speaker

From Pain to Power, From Loss to Legacy

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Merilee Smith

Speaker | Mindset & Leadership Coach

Freeing Yourself the Perfectionist Hustle

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Rachael Rennebeck

Co-owner of YaJagoff Media, LLC and PittsburgHER creator

Beyond the Image: Self-Acceptance, Natural Beauty, and Redefining Success

When the World Pushes Back: Alignment Through Disruption

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Dr. Missy Hillock

Quantum Psychologist

When Outer Dissonance Leads to Inner Alignment

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Jackie Coley, PhD

Mental Fitness Coach & Career Strategist

The Push Off the Fence: When Disruption Becomes a Breakthrough

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Aakanksha Agarwal 

Journalist

No Limits to Growing

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Christy Uffelman

Reinvention coach, #1 Amazon bestselling author and founder of EDGE Leadership

Wayfinding

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Cassaundra Paolini

Soul Coach, Healer, Energy Worker

The Light in You

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Kelly Boyer

Intuitive Advisor & Hypnosis Consultant

From Silent Survival to Soul-Led Clarity: How I Transformed 40 Years of Abuse into the CLEARITY Method™

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Ta'lor Pinkston 

The Heart Advocate, Licensed "Self-love" Social Worker, Mental Health Professional

From Self-Neglect to Self-love

"I'm every woman" : Navigating Harsh Transitions

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Lana Manikowski

Infertility Activist, Author and Podcast Host

Infertile and Childless: From Silent Shame to Strength

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Cathy Skipper

Menopause Midwife

Menopause - A Portal to Sovereignty

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Marlee Liss

Award-Winning Speaker, Survivor Advocate, Somatic Educator, and Author

From Shame to Empowerment: Rethinking Justice for Sexual Violence

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Sara Kidwell

Founder of SoloTogether Coaching & Experiences | Holistic Executive Coaching for Women

Permission to Question, Deconstruct, and Reimagine Your Life

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Dr. Steph Rouch

Founder of Paradigm Expansions, Spiritual Guide

When Listening to Yourself Becomes the Bravest Thing You Can Do | Shame, Divorce & Rediscovering Joy

Meet Your Host:
Stephanie Rouch, PhD

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I’m so glad you’re here. I’m Dr. Steph—lover of life, seeker of truth, and intuitive spiritual coach.

For years, I lived in opposition to my own intuition. While I excelled externally, I was in a marriage trying to prove someone else was worthy of love—and pursuing a PhD to prove I was “good enough.” The deeper I denied my truth, the dimmer my spirit became.

Divorce brought me face-to-face with the shame, guilt, and self-doubt I had been carrying for years. Through chakra meditation and reconnecting with my heart’s voice, I began to honor myself—not by proving my worth, but by validating it within.

 

That journey lit the way to my true purpose: guiding women back to their own radiant inner light.

This series is your invitation into a circle of women who see you, welcome you, and hold space for your next chapter of transformation—from pain, perfectionism, and self-sacrifice into self-trust, joy, and freedom.

No matter what depths of shame you are experiencing, you are welcome here. All of you.

Deepen self-aCCEPTANCE

You are not alone in your pain. Your experience doesn't mean there is something wrong with you or you're doomed to a mediocre life. 

Release the lies

The scripts that leave us feeling ashamed are illusions. Hearing accounts of others going through similar processes can help you remember that YOU get to choose how you feel about yourself and your life. 

embrace freedom

As your shame loses its grip, there is freedom. Freedom with not having to please others, make them comfortable, or make them approve of you. YOU get to approve of you.

Love your life

As you become your own final arbiter of your life, the voice of your heart and intuition becomes more clear. You will continue to make choices aligned with your true self - and watch as the life of your dreams unfolds. 

Save the Date!

Saturday, December 20th
12pm EST | 9am PST | 5pm GMT

Shame to Shine Integration Session - Live

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At Paradigm Expansions, we guide those who feel confined to roles of endless giving and performing to:

Release guilt and shame around not being enough

Honor your own needs as the foundation for authentic service

Step boldly into your most radiant self.

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